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参考までにざっくりとした私の勉強スタイルですが、私は高校の自習室が朝7:15〜18:00まで空いていたので授業時間以外は常に使っていました。帰宅後も夕食、入浴後寝るまで2〜3時間勉強していました。授業のある平日は6〜7時間くらいやっていたと思います。 学校での過ごし方ですが、各教科1人ずつ、私のなかで絶対的信頼を置ける先生というのを決めて、わからない問題は必ず質問に行きました。また添削も頻繁にお願いしていました。成績が伸び悩むときは相談をしました。(こういうのを塾でやってくれると思うのですが、通塾していない分自主的に!ここで自分から動けない人は独学があまり向いていないかと) 高校には学費を払っている立場なので(もちろん親がですが)、使えるもんは使い倒す、先生に聞きまくる利用する、と常に思っていました。 とにかく無計画にやらないことです。 今日やること、次の模試までにやること、春中にやりたいこと、など区切れごとにしっかり計画を立て、自分が自分のチューターになったつもりでいれば独学でもきちんと勉強を進めていくことができると思います。塾に通ってない分、自分の弱点補強に使える時間が存分にあるのでその時間を決して無駄にしないことです。 ぜひ頑張ってください! 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