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塾のひとで、苗字順で席が前のひとだったんだけれど。最初はお互い全く関心がなかったが、ある日何気ない会話で、お互い好きなおでんの具が昆布ということで仲良くなった。 成績も同じくらいで、模試のあとは必ず成績を見せ合う仲に。彼にバカにされないように、差が開かないように、勉強も頑張れた。 家ではお互い勉強できない派だったので毎日塾の自習室通い&閉館まで一緒に勉強した。閉館のときは、自習室が真っ暗になるので2人で肝試し?をしたり。青春をした。 しかし受験が近づくにつれ、個別授業などが増え、会う機会が減っていった。 センター後、私大入試直前、久しぶりに彼と会った。すると彼は、次はいつ会えるかわからないから、、と、学ランのボタンを私にくれた(鼻血)。私はそのボタンを筆箱の中に入れ受験に挑んだ。強くなれた気がした... 回答者は結果合格。彼は国立志望だったのでまだ受験が残っていたが、お祝いしてくれた。初めて彼の自転車で2人乗りして町を回ったりした。だいぶうかれていた。 でも実は彼はセンターがあまりうまくいっていなかったようで。第一志望ではなく、地方の国立へ行くことが決まった。 回答者も進学の準備やら進学してからもドタバタ忙しく、彼に会えたのは結局それが最後であった、、、、、 彼とは結局友達以上恋人未満だったけれど、彼と頑張れたから合格できたのかも知れない。。なんて思っている。。。涙 、、、、何が言いたかったのか忘れたけれどとりあえず ・まだ付き合うな ・付き合う前の良好な関係が良好なモチベーションとなる いかがでしょう。 1d:Tff9,楽しそう〜〜笑 でも、その子のことを今までは知らなかったということは、告白されたことが嬉しいだけで、その子のことは別に好きじゃないんじゃないかなと思ったのだけど。どうなんだろう?? 私も似たようなポリシーを高3のときもっていて笑、結論から言うと付き合わなかったよ。 周りの人を見ても、あまりおすすめはしないかな。。なんでかというと、片思いの恋愛と両思いの恋愛って違うのはなんとなくわかるよね👀片思いのうちは何でも楽しいし嬉しいんだけど、両思いになると楽しい嬉しいが前提となってしまって一瞬でも楽しくなければ、不安になってしまうものなのよ、、とくに思春期は、、!! 加えて、受験という重圧のなかで成績が伸び悩んだりしてそのやりきれない思いを恋人にぶつけちゃったりして関係がこじれたり、あとは2人の世界に没頭して受験戦争上消息不明になり気付いたら浪人になったりしている人を何組か見た、、🤫 高校生活で楽しい恋愛は不可欠なのはそうだと思う。。けど、受験競争激しいこの国に生まれてしまって大学受験を志す以上、高校生活を楽しむべきだという主張はナンセンスなのかもしれないね。大学にいくには(内部進学や指定校推薦?を除き)絶対に受験を経なければならないし、高校時代は勉強に最も時間を割かないといけないからはっきり言って恋愛は負担が増えるだけと考えてもらったほうが現実的かなと...。あ、でも今高2なのか。高2のときは私も彼氏いたわ笑笑。高2はギリギリかなー。高3では本格的に受験勉強に染まらないといけないかな。 なので一個人のアドバイスとしては、今は受験勉強に専念したい+○○ちゃんが良ければ受験が終わってから付き合わない?みたいなことを言えばよろしい。 おまけなんだけど笑、 「吊り橋効果」ってなんとなく聞いたことあるんじゃないかなと思う🌉 グラグラ揺れるもろい話の上に男女を置き、揺れたときお互い怖いという感情とともに心臓がバクバクするけど、その心臓バクバクが相手のことが好きでバクバクしている?!と脳が間違えることで起こる効果のことね。 質問者さんの文章読んだとき、これかなーと思った笑。告白されると誰でも嬉しいし興奮するじゃん。相手のことが好きで興奮したんじゃなくて、告白されたこと自体が嬉しくて興奮したのに、脳が相手のことが好きで興奮したのだなと間違えて、いつの間にか相手のことが気になってついに好きになるという感じね。 そういうきっかけは恋愛にはよくあることだし全然間違いではないけどね。 しかし受験生で必ずしも恋愛しなくていい時期に、そういう形で恋愛を始めて万が一受験に失敗した場合、、、なんてこった!て感じはあるよね笑。 更にどうでもいいことを並べると、大学生になって、サークルに入ると、夏にみんなでどこか田舎へ合宿へ行くということがよくある。で、だいたい男女ペアで肝試しをするんだけど、肝試しの後から2人の様子がおかしくなって気づくとなんか付き合ってるじゃんーー!ていうことが、よくある。まさに吊り橋効果だね笑。ちなみに私も昔それに引っかかった1人笑。なんてこっただわ。 何が言いたいかわからなくなってしまったけれど、とりあえず ・今は恋愛いらない(まあ高2ならギリokな気もするけど高3では本当におすすめしない) ・大学生になっても恋愛はできる! 以上でした🐣1e:T17a7,はじめまして! 理系チックな返答をします笑。初めに言っておきますが、かなり無機質です。感情論的なアドバイスはお互いをよく知る友人等に貰って貰って、私からはあえて客観的で徹底した合理主義的なアドバイスをさせていただきます。色々な角度からのアドバイスを踏まえて判断してもらえればと思います。それらを理解した上で以下読んでいただければ幸いです。 まずもえさん側は現状の関係性で十分満足していて、それが今崩れようとしている。お相手はさらなる関係性を望み、もえさんも満更ではなさそう(文面から判断しました)。 結論から言うと、崩れた結果もえさん側に利があるなら恋愛に発展させればいいと思います。具体的にはもえさんのモチベが上がるみたいなメリットがある、あるいはもえさん自体に特にデメリットはないがお相手にメリットがあるなどありましたら。一方もえさん側にメリットがないどころかむしろデメリットがあるなら今は受験に専念した方がいいですね。例えば息抜きと称してめちゃくちゃデート誘われるとか今は勉強の話をしている時間にめちゃくちゃ惚気だすとか、お相手がもえさんが今求めていること以上のことを求めてくる時ですね。受験というのは今後の人生を変えます。そんな重要な時期に、本人が望まないのに相手に合わして自分の勉強ができないのは勿体なさすぎます。 これは同性として勝手に妄想する事なのですが、現状それなりに近しい関係性でいるのにも関わらずさらに欲するとなれば、あまりもえさんに都合のいい展開には転がらない気がします。もえさんが求めるような関係性ならば恋愛に発展させる必要はないですからね。 ただ精神的な安定が欲しいだけという可能性もありますが、お相手のことが分からないので判断しきれないところですが。。。 少し話が逸れましたが、肝心の恋愛と勉強が両立できるかですが、結局受験というのは必要な知識を入れ必要な技術を身につける必要があります。そのために必要な時間を確保できるかどうかが合否を分けます。自分の持つ時間からその時間を引いて残った時間に収まる恋愛ができるかが返答になります。要するに人によります。 厄介なのが、恋愛というのは相手がいます。相手の恋愛観が自分の(主に時間的な)枠に収まるか、それだけでも大変なのにさらに自分の恋愛観が相手の恋愛観の枠に収まるか。これらを同時に満たす必要があります。恋愛がとる比重が大きいともちろん枠には収まりませんし、小さいからと言ってあまりにも小さいとじゃあ恋愛に発展させなくて良くない?となります(つまりあんまり現実的では無い)。 もえさんに限った話をすると、お相手と恋愛するにあたって今もえさんが得ている刺激だったりモチベを得続けられるかつ今の勉強の比重と競合しないかがまず問題です。それが満たされた上で、じゃあ次はお相手がそれで満足するかですね。こればっかりはもえさんにも我々部外者にも分からないので本人に聞くしかないです。 1つ提案としては、そこら辺を伝えた上で本人に決めさせればいいと思います。「私はこれは譲れないしこういうことは今したくない」というのを伝えてそれで納得できるならば恋愛に発展させれば良い。まあ正直恋愛の駆け引きは度外視しているので、そんなことするぐらいなら恋愛なんかしない!と思われても当然です笑。 ただこれまで話したのは、私の価値観や経験に基づく一つの考えなので、必ずしも合っているとは限らないし、何よりもえさんは従う必要も無いです。恋愛とか受験とかはあくまでもえさんの人生なので、最終自分の望むままにすればいいと思います。理屈ではこうなんだけど、本能的には真逆!みたいなことも当然あります。どちらを採るかは我々他人には決めれません。そしてそうした結果の責任も我々他人には負うことは出来ません。それさえ分かった上で判断すれば良いと思います。 そして何より、自分が後悔しないこと! いくら受験の結果が悪くても自分が納得できていればそれでいいと思います。極論受験はいつでもできますが、その時出会った人との恋愛はその時限りです。他人と生まれるものである以上自分自身の都合だけではどうにもならないので。受験も恋愛も自分一人ではなんとも出来ない領域がある以上、結果自分が納得できるかが重要だと思っています。片方をとってもう片方に後悔が残るなら少し決断が早かったことになります。逆に何をしてと後悔するとなると逆に後悔はしないと思います(あの時はそうせざるを得なかったから仕方がないと割りきれるはず)。 以上、超理系的な返答でした笑。 感情論は極力排除しているので、もしかすると「何言ってんだこいつ」「何も分かってない」となるかもしれません。そういう時は全然無視してください。 もし万が一にももっと聞きたいことがあるという奇跡があるならばコメントください。できる範囲内で助力したいと思います。 再三言いますが、後悔だけはしない選択を!2:["$","main",null,{"className":"px-4 pt-4 pb-4","children":["$","div",null,{"className":"max-w-3xl mx-auto w-full","children":[["$","div",null,{"className":"mb-8","children":["$","$L7",null,{"href":"https://unilink-app.onelink.me/isbO/h6xeh63x?advice=0E3Xr3cBTqPwDZPuxael","target":"_blank","children":["$","$L8",null,{"src":"/images/web_to_app_banner.jpg","width":3660,"height":1500,"sizes":"100vw","style":{"width":"100%","height":"auto"},"alt":"UniLink WebToAppバナー画像","className":"mb-4 rounded"}]}]}],["$","h1",null,{"className":"text-xl font-semibold 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mb-1","children":"はじめまして。\nいかにも青春といった感じでうらやましいです。\n\n受験期の恋愛には障壁が多いですが、人を好きになる気持ちを止めることはできませんよね😰この状態で好きな気持ちを抑えて勉強なんて絶対できませんよね。悶々としたまま本番に入ってしまうのは避けたいですよね。\n\n思い切って気持ちを伝えてしまうのがいいと思いますよ。\nただ、その際あなたが挙げられていた不安も伝えてあげてください。恋愛のせいで自分と相手の受験に悪い影響が出てしまうのではないか不安だと。相手があなたの想いに応えてくれるなら、きっと一緒に真剣に考えてくれます。\n彼が受験を理由に告白を断ることは明確、と言われていましたが、そうとも限らんと僕は思いますよ。僕は男ですが、受験勉強は基本的に独学だったので心細い時もありました…やはり1人で勉強だけするのはしんどい。そんな時に自分をいつも支えて、そして一緒に頑張ってくれる人がいてくれたらそれはもう嬉しいものです。しかもそれが恋する人だといったら、なんと素敵なことでしょうか。というわけで、もし自分がお相手なら快諾します。(もちろんデート等はできるだけ我慢してくださいね。まあ予備校デートとか模試デートとか素敵そうですけど)あとはあなたの想いにお相手がどれだけ応えてくれるかの問題です。気持ちを伝えるのはあなたの仕事、選ぶのは相手の仕事、振られてしまったら、潔く諦めて勉学に集中しましょう。\n案外立ち直れるものです。(しばらくは落ち込みますが)\n\n最後に…苦しくて泣きそうなほど人を好きになれるということは本当に素敵で、羨ましいと思います。そんな想いを受験のせいで相手に届けることができない…なんて悲しいというか、なんだか虚しすぎるとは思いませんか?僕個人の意見として、受験とか関係なくその想いは絶対に相手に伝えるべきだと思いますよ。これから1年間悩みは多いと思いますが、あなたに恋愛と受験、2つの春が訪れることを願っています。\n\n人の恋愛事情もよくわからない、いち大学生の身分で失礼しました。"}],["$","div",null,{"className":"flex 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